After starting college I felt like a bit of an outcast, but like the other posters say, once you make one close friend, you can join their 'click' if you like and 'hang' with their friends, that way you can get to know others without been all alone again. I know you said you have little patience for clubs, but their must be a club you enjoy, which will have other people for you to hang out with. Another thought is try to make sure you have a diverse mix of male and female friends, as if all your friends are the same sex, it becomes harder to mingle with the other and a vicious circle can begin!
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