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Originally Posted by silicon toad2000  The thing many people stumble on is that we will at least once in our lives, sometimes often, find a person whom we 'click' with better than our partners. People need to understand this, deal with it and accept it. |
While I totally agree with the above statement it has nothing to do with having a healthy, happy marriage. I've actually found many people I 'click' with better than my husband, but having gotten to know some of them very well, I would not be able to be married to them for one reason or another (values, common goals, personality etc.)
People make the mistake of thinking your spouse/partner has to fulfill all of your needs. If that were true, we wouldn't need anyone else in our lives.
There are many components to a
healthy marriage/relationship. You can enjoy what others have to offer without damaging your relationship with your partner if you know where to draw the line and put it in perspective.