Originally Posted by Savage
No reason you can't have a stable partner this way if it's what you need. Welcome into your life whatever is good for you.
I didn't mean to imply that you'd have to shift from a deep intimate connection with one person to lots of casual connections. That isn't how it's playing out for me.
So you're experiencing many, simultaneous deep connections right now? I'd say I'm connecting with a lot of people too.
In the past I've been romantically involved with more than one person at a time but it doesn't appeal to me for long term. I don't know though, I feel what you're saying about not putting all your eggs in one basket relationship-wise, I think that can be detrimental.
I'm semi-involved with someone right now and I dont really want to pursue anyone besides him, but sometimes I feel like I should have more irons in the fire in case it doesn't pan out. Then again, I don't want to make multiple romantic connections out of a fear based mentality.
I don't see myself capable of being polyamorous, though.