Hello MM19,
According to the Low of Attraction (LoA), you are 100% responsible for all of your experiences. All, there are no exceptions. But what does it mean, right?
It means that anything you don’t like and I mean anything – your boyfriend, ex-boyfriend, the way someone looked at you at a store, the weather, your broken nail, the color of your neighbors’ house – anything – is actually created by you and not by something or someone outside of you.
But what does that mean, right? It means – and yes, I know it may sound weird and counterintuitive at first, but it is true – that something within you has actually created the boyfriend situation you have described here.
In other words, your boyfriend or ex-boyfriend has absolutely nothing to do wit it. Hence, what you think you know about his intentions, about him, or what he said to you is completely irrelevant.
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Originally Posted by MM19  How can I avoid these thoughts and maintain the understanding that I am what is better and trust what he has said to me, "that he thinks I might be the one and this isn't the end?" |
To avoid these thoughts, you have to take 100 % responsibility for what happened. What you see in another is also in you. So all healing is actually self-healing.
Taking responsibility does not mean that you need to blame yourself for your current situation, just the opposite; you need to embrace it and love it. It is your “baby,” you created it, not your ex-boyfriend.
Okay, but what if your thoughts are still bothering you? According to
Zero Limits by Joe Vitale, do this:
Say “I’m sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. Thank you.”
By saying “I’m sorry” you are telling the Devine, the Universe, higher power, your God, what have you, that you want forgiveness inside yourself for whatever brought it to you. You are not asking the Devine to forgive you, you are asking the Devine to help you forgive yourself.
The “I love you” transfers the energy from stack to flowing, it reconnects you to the pure you, to the Devine.
When you say “Thank you” – you are expressing gratitude. You are showing your faith that the issue will be resolved for the highest good of all concerned.
Try it. It works.