[MM19]

Hello out there. Just looking for some advice. Recently, a relationship with a man I truly loved ended. Unfortunately, over the last year, I have been manifesting another woman over and over. Try as I might, I just can't stop. Several of my exes were cheaters, and it is my greatest fear now.

Sadly, this man is not really a "cheater" or a "womanizer," but has recently been behaving this way, I think bc/ I manifested it. Even when the relationship ended (3 weeks ago), he told me he still loved me and did not see this as the "true end" of our relationship (but that it would take a lot of time). In the meantime, all I keep thinking about is another woman coming along to "take my place." I am really working on trying not to manifest such thoughts, but it seems so hard since I constantly hear he is out with other women.

I know, sincerely, that he intends to take this time to get his life, finances, and career in order, and that these women he is "dating" (translation: sleeping with) just make him feel better about himself (they are younger, students, without careers in place, and think he is just the "bees knees"; I, on the other hand, am older, established, and looking to "settle down") bc/ he is a bit younger than I (5 years). How can I avoid these thoughts and maintain the understanding that I am what is better and trust what he has said to me, "that he thinks I might be the one and this isn't the end?" Thanks for the help. I feel a bit girly and silly posting this, but the advice always helps! Best!