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SeriousKidding.com · 07-15-2007, 03:40 PM

Well first off, you two need to get some therapy from a relationship/marriage counselor, BIG TIME! Only my humble opinion, but you need to find a new perspective. All your stresses have made both of you unable to deal with reality. If you split up, how is that going to help anything? What about the kids?! What about YOU TWO?! Running from the situation often sounds like the way out. It is not. It's just like deciding to become an alcoholic to solve your problems. Well, regardless, the problems are STILL there no matter what you do. So, how can you find a way to accept, handle, and enjoy your lot in life? That's what you must focus on. And, I think you need help to allow yourselves to do this. I know from experience (believe me!), or I wouldn't be weighing in on this immense crisis you're facing. BUT, I sure think you have a lot of guts to tell us about it. All I can say is: there IS a way out and a way BACK for you and your family. You just have to find it. And, that IS DOABLE! All the best. --Brad Gerver

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SeriousKidding.com Banned Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Beavercleaverville, AZ Posts: 112	Well first off, you two need to get some therapy from a relationship/marriage counselor, BIG TIME! Only my humble opinion, but you need to find a new perspective. All your stresses have made both of you unable to deal with reality. If you split up, how is that going to help anything? What about the kids?! What about YOU TWO?! Running from the situation often sounds like the way out. It is not. It's just like deciding to become an alcoholic to solve your problems. Well, regardless, the problems are STILL there no matter what you do. So, how can you find a way to accept, handle, and enjoy your lot in life? That's what you must focus on. And, I think you need help to allow yourselves to do this. I know from experience (believe me!), or I wouldn't be weighing in on this immense crisis you're facing. BUT, I sure think you have a lot of guts to tell us about it. All I can say is: there IS a way out and a way BACK for you and your family. You just have to find it. And, that IS DOABLE! All the best. --Brad Gerver Last edited by SeriousKidding.com; 07-15-2007 at 03:42 PM.