If it were me my first priority would be to my baby. 5 months is still an infant who needs mom as much as possible. To give up breast feeding at 5 months is not something I would take lightly. My next priority would be to get my CPA so my child and I could get back with my husband. Then when I am settled help my parents. If they can hang on without your help for now then I would let them. Is it possible for your husband to send any money to contribute to your parents household while you are living there? Pay your mom for babysitting while you are in class for example? No matter what you decide keep in mind you are so lucky that your mom can watch your daughter while you work or study. So many moms have to leave their babies with virtual strangers.
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