I don't really remember the reasons I wanted to have children, but ever since I was a child myself, my only major goal for myself when I grew up was to get married and have kids.
I did succeed in my goal, and loved every minute of it (still do). But now that my children are somewhat older 19, 18, 13 and don't need me every second of the day, I have been free to create other goals for myself, my life and my career.
I have to say that although it's still a bit soon to know for sure, so far it looks like my husband and I have done a good job raising our children as they have led great lives up to this point. I anticipate big things for all 3 of them in the future, and that my friends, makes it all worth while!
On the other hand, not everyone is cut out to be a parent, nor wants to be one even if they are cut out for it. That's okay too. Nobody should have kids just because they think it's the norm or something they have to do. It's okay to never have children if that's what you're most comfortable with.
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