Yah, well, it's awkward to ask him this kind of question. in a quandry since he said it three times.... always, honey, you're "it". uh uh, the romantic (insecure/cautious) wants to hear, honey, you're the one. No big deal, but I guess i'm making it one, eh? He nor I drink, so, can't just fumble words around in gest - and am not that annoyed - yet.... just wanted to vent and ask an unbiased smart group of ppl - hey, thx for bothering to respond!