Question about goal-setting I do have a question regarding goal setting:
I would like to set a goal for having a girlfriend. Now I know goals must be VERY clear and precise but I am not sure, whether I should specify every single character trait or physical attribute she should possess or if I could just trust my subconscious in these matters by specifying that she is perfectly suited for me.
For instance
"By XX/XX/XXX I have a great relationship with the girl who is most perfectly suited for me physically and personality-wise and who loves me sincerely."
If I were to specify every single character trait or physical attribute, I would fear, that there may not be a person with this exact combination of characteristics. Also I would be afraid that what I consciously think I want is not what I _really_ want or what I am really attracted to unconsciously. For these reasons I would prefer to trust my subconscious by just saying she is perfect for me.
Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Jack |