Thanks, Erin!
I was having frequent thoughts of a former lover recently - very intense relationship, lots of growth throughout. Instead of thinking this meant "we're supposed to be together!", I focused on which qualities about that person I wanted in a partner. Are they things I want in my own self? What is it I think of, when I think of them? Can I have those things in my life in other ways? It's usually not about the *person*, in other words.
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