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rapidsnyc · 07-09-2007, 04:29 PM

I like porn. Now, as I have come to a stage of emotional maturity (or what Steve Pavlina calls 'Living consciously') I have came to a revelation that it is a total destroyer of my whole personal-development process.

Because,
# It wastes my time and money.
# It totally distorts my view of female society as a whole.
# I feel moral weakness. (maybe a guilt sort of thing)
# It is very addictive and it somewhat comes in way of my duties.
# It takes away lot of my energy.

As on this strong reasons, I ventured into a total porn-ban for myself.It worked well for 2-3 months then I came across another revelation..." Life is too short...so enjoy every moment of it." So I decided to do what I really enjoy. And the porn game was ON again.
A swing from two extreme ends was obvious. So I decided to pursue my porn hobbie in a moderation but it didn't happened. I am addict again. I know it is not good for me.

Help Please.

07-09-2007, 04:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
rapidsnyc Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Earth Posts: 38	Pornography, Should or Shouldn't. I like porn. Now, as I have come to a stage of emotional maturity (or what Steve Pavlina calls 'Living consciously') I have came to a revelation that it is a total destroyer of my whole personal-development process. Because, # It wastes my time and money. # It totally distorts my view of female society as a whole. # I feel moral weakness. (maybe a guilt sort of thing) # It is very addictive and it somewhat comes in way of my duties. # It takes away lot of my energy. As on this strong reasons, I ventured into a total porn-ban for myself.It worked well for 2-3 months then I came across another revelation..." Life is too short...so enjoy every moment of it." So I decided to do what I really enjoy. And the porn game was ON again. A swing from two extreme ends was obvious. So I decided to pursue my porn hobbie in a moderation but it didn't happened. I am addict again. I know it is not good for me. Help Please. Last edited by rapidsnyc; 07-10-2007 at 10:44 AM.