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Old 07-09-2007, 01:43 PM   #41 (permalink)
Ilya
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Originally Posted by sv800 View Post
In you case how this transformation happened? I'm very interested in dissipate my fears...
sv800, as I wrote, I did it the hard (or cheating, depending on perspective) way. I removed the external source of fear - the need for money. A more enlightened person would be able to conquer their fear from within.
I think, now, I can do it as well, because I had the experience of "not fearing" in my past. If you can find such experience in your past, you can try it as well.

Remember, how you felt when you did not fear, then practice recalling this feeling in a neutral or positive setting. Then when you can recall it at will, try to do it in a situation that makes you afraid. For example, while thinking about the situation when you do not have stable income. After some time, you can reach the state when you don't give an f-word about loosing your job.
Then scale it back, because you should be fearless but still reasonable.
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