An observation/suggestion/whatever:
It seems to me that if your husband is as you say then he's that way for a reason (no, I'm not blaming you). Noone just gives up on life for the heck of it. Maybe if you're big on Intention-Manifestation you could manifest him working through whatever's holding him back?
If you're not big on Intention-Manifestation maybe you could help him, not by trying to organise him, but by trying to help him through his blocks. That takes some delicacy, but it's worth consideration, IMO. It may even be that he's failed in your eyes so much that he just doesn't try anymore.
Also, from the sound of it, his work may be very draining. Perhaps that's a place to start? Make his work less draining? Make more energy available to him somehow (diet? exercise?) etc. etc.
By this stage you have to be deeply mired in this relationship. It might be worth taking a step back and looking at him from a big picture view and from his perspective.
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