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tweety17 · 07-08-2007, 09:13 PM

As an update on this topic, husband came home around 1:30 in the afternoon. He came in dropped off his suitcase, went back outside, used the garden hose to wash/rinse his car, pulled up his car into the driveway and came in the house. I said hello, he ignored me, went into the fridge and grabbed a soda, drank some left the can on the counter and then went upstairs and went to bed.

So I went off shopping and driving around. This is a 50 year old man acting so immature. I have an appointment for counseling tommorow and I'm hoping he will go with me as it's a couples counselor.

I just want to go upstairs and wake him up and say lets talk but I know he'll just say he doesn't want to talk about it right now.

Also, I have moved the cats to my sister's house so they are out of the house and should not be an issue! Obviously like everyone has mentioned in their reply to my post, there has to be something deeper that he's not telling me and hopefully he'll tell me or he will bring it up in counseling (if he comes with me).

Thank you all for your support in this trying time.

07-08-2007, 09:13 PM	#20 (permalink)
tweety17 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 10	Update On This Situation As an update on this topic, husband came home around 1:30 in the afternoon. He came in dropped off his suitcase, went back outside, used the garden hose to wash/rinse his car, pulled up his car into the driveway and came in the house. I said hello, he ignored me, went into the fridge and grabbed a soda, drank some left the can on the counter and then went upstairs and went to bed. So I went off shopping and driving around. This is a 50 year old man acting so immature. I have an appointment for counseling tommorow and I'm hoping he will go with me as it's a couples counselor. I just want to go upstairs and wake him up and say lets talk but I know he'll just say he doesn't want to talk about it right now. Also, I have moved the cats to my sister's house so they are out of the house and should not be an issue! Obviously like everyone has mentioned in their reply to my post, there has to be something deeper that he's not telling me and hopefully he'll tell me or he will bring it up in counseling (if he comes with me). Thank you all for your support in this trying time.