lesreg, it sounds like you and your husband have been out of sync and in a rut for a while. You want to develop and he wants to sit around like a lump.
You didn't mention whether you love him or not, but you say you don't like him. If you're waiting for him to change don't hold your breath. On the other hand I wouldn't let him stop you from achieving your goals. Set up a plan for yourself and follow it. It might be harder with him trying to drag you down, but if you ignore his comments he might give up and let you go about your business.
Maybe once he sees how personal development makes you happier with yourself he might give it a try himself. Be nice to him and give him positive feedback when he is accepting and helpful, but let him know when you need more help and encouragement.
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