I'd say a good mindset if you're looking to make many friends is to be willing to sacrifice your time and what you want to do.
Not to mean you should go do something you totally expect to suck, but there will be times where you will try out new things and get out of your comfort zone.
That is how I find I make friends at a faster pace although the natural/easygoing/luck way still works enough that I can build a decent social circle.
Finding true friendships that can bear the test of time will require much more work, but I think that comes with understanding yourself and meeting more people.
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