I don't want to offend you, but what your daughter does for a living, and sexually is her business. There are a lot of dad's out there who would be horrified if they saw the activities there daughter's were doing while away at college (not just sexually). Her sex life, even if it is a professional one, is her business. I doubt you share details of your sex life with her?
If she hasn't told you and has been doing this for a couple of years, than she does not want you to know. I would suggest not talking to her about it, and instead talk to friends or family members who would be understanding and loving to you. If you feel ashamed talking about this to people you know you could consult with a therapist. Perhaps there is a time when it would be appropriate to talk to your daughter, but I would be careful confronting her when the wound is still fresh. It would be very sad for you to say something you would later regret, and end up seriously hurting your relationship with your daughter. |