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uberinquisitive · 07-05-2007, 02:51 AM

Fawn, I haven't been bullied, but I have had an abusive childhood. Letting go of the past is very difficult. I am 28 now, and I find that time and just "growing up" helped a lot.

In your situation, I recommend you read "Loving What is" by Byron Katie and "Self Matters" by Dr. Phil. These will help you get out of your current mindset, which seems to be attracting these awful situations. You will also want to watch "The Secret"

After you do all the above, and really study them and take about a week to digest things...tell us if your situation feels any different.

Good luck.

07-05-2007, 02:51 AM	#5 (permalink)
uberinquisitive Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 634	Fawn, I haven't been bullied, but I have had an abusive childhood. Letting go of the past is very difficult. I am 28 now, and I find that time and just "growing up" helped a lot. In your situation, I recommend you read "Loving What is" by Byron Katie and "Self Matters" by Dr. Phil. These will help you get out of your current mindset, which seems to be attracting these awful situations. You will also want to watch "The Secret" After you do all the above, and really study them and take about a week to digest things...tell us if your situation feels any different. Good luck.