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seeker5 · 07-05-2007, 01:39 AM

One topic I haven't heard on the podcast is how to deal with relationship in which you are growing. I had assumed for several years that once I've "fixed" myself, then I will find a woman who has everything I want and marry her. Now that I've changed my paradigm from "fixing" myself to "growing" myself, I will never be at the point of perfection, as I will continue to be constantly growing one way or another. So a topic I would be interested in hearing about, is how to successfully handle a marriage while being a person who grows and changes their aspect of their personality? How does the dynamic play out, and what are recommendations to find someone who will deal with growth, and then how to deal with that.

07-05-2007, 01:39 AM	#11 (permalink)
seeker5 Family Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 3,606	relationship One topic I haven't heard on the podcast is how to deal with relationship in which you are growing. I had assumed for several years that once I've "fixed" myself, then I will find a woman who has everything I want and marry her. Now that I've changed my paradigm from "fixing" myself to "growing" myself, I will never be at the point of perfection, as I will continue to be constantly growing one way or another. So a topic I would be interested in hearing about, is how to successfully handle a marriage while being a person who grows and changes their aspect of their personality? How does the dynamic play out, and what are recommendations to find someone who will deal with growth, and then how to deal with that.