I think that the article is pretty off base. I can agree with the general premise that in order to get a girl you have to meet her needs. I don't agree with the premise that nice guys don't get girls because they don't give them flowers at the right time. It is not a nice guys v. bad boys struggle, its a boring v. interesting struggle.
"Nice guys" that we generalize and stereotype don't get girls because they don't seem interesting, while bad boys seem interesting and fun - when in fact it has nothing to do with being nice or not, there are plenty of guys that get girls that are nice, they get them because those guys are interesting and fun to be around.
It doesn't matter what you do, it matters how you make the girls feel. So I disagree about the flower analogy at the end of the article - it really doesn't matter if what you do is cliche or whatever, it just depends on how you make the girl feel about it.
That is just my opinion - I am a 'nice guy' and always treat women well, but I have never had trouble with women not enjoying being with me.
Bottom line - you will get girls if you make them feel good about themselves and are fun so that they will want to be around you.
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