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Old 07-04-2007, 08:14 AM   #4 (permalink)
MartialDev
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What should i do about the people who have bullied me? I know i can move on, but the memories are cemented in my brain and i believe that i can do something, repair, overpower or contact them, to better heal myself, to help break the cycle of victemisation. Do anyone have expirence in this sort of thing that they can share? If you do give me advice, may i ask what you get from it (i don't mean to come off as snarky but it's been my past expirence that i should do as you do not as you say...)

should i write a letter about how they've hurt me? should i play victim or be assertive? should i try to get them to a see a couselor because they obvioulsy have problems...
Judging by your comments, you're not in any position to solve other people's problems.

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should i do something really horrible like get naked pictures of them and post them all over the internet?

should i beat the crap out of them?

And what should i do about the basic bullying? Should i role play to be more "normal" and get more positive? Does anyone have any realistic, you can do this at home, advice?
You should forgive them.
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