z3100668 you may be right to some degree, but you also miss-interpret this whole thing because of ignorance, and i say this because what we have been taking about is not about the satisfying of primal needs, but to use sexual pleasure to be more better human.
I have read this in another site, keeping away from ejaculation, wich is just like satisfying hunger, makes us more human, because no animal has that capacity of increasing and utilizing sex in such an energizing way, instead animals just follow their instinct, they try to ejaculate very quickly, thus not really using the full power that sex offers, some people also, just like animals and because of ignorance, masturbate/have sex to reach ejaculation and orgams, wich is what our bodies asks us to do, but if we gain control of ourselves we can really use all this power and energy to our advantage, and its not a primal thing anymore, its a way of really get to know more about life, to enjoy your life more, to be more loving, to have more energy and to be have more peace, thats far from the normal "quick fix".
Edit: about pornography, i try to stay away from it because of my religion, but, it would be anyway a bad idea because over estimulating your senses, specially your imagination, really can get you quicker to orgasm, wich is not what we want here, its better to concentrate fully on your body, and not use imagination or images, that way its much easier to control yourself.
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