Hi there.
You might not want to take my advice seriously, but I assure you it is the best I can offer.
Say only that you know what has happened, and that you love her anyway.
Let her react.
Tell her you just wished she'd told you.
And let things be. Be friendly in asking about VD's. Be friendly in asking about drugs.
Don't yell. It's the worst way to react, because it assures her that she won't find acceptance with you, even if that's not the case.
Try to be ready. It's better to cry in front of her than to get angry.
And finally, I hope you and she are able to find a good trust out of all this regardless.
She won't be a pornstar forever. Or if she does, it *is* a legal profession, and she seems to take it quite maturely (a BMW is hardly the kind of savings a person could afford on their drug money, so I doubt she's also dosing).
Remember to keep an optimistic outlook.
As long as you look on it all positively, things will remain positive.
Don't lose hope.
~ David
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