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Originally Posted by justin  I reassure her that nothing is wrong, that I'm just thinking about whatever--speculating on the rabbit hole that was just opened up for me. I deeply want her to be involved with changes like this; I would love to have conversations with her about these things, but I've tried, and something is keeping us from communicating about it. |
Well, as a female, I'm just going to add that quiet boyfriends can be a bit disconcerting.
If it were
me... I'd want to pick your brain when you got quiet and thoughtful. It's in those midnight conversations on the porch that go on until dawn that you really get a know a person.
But think you caught the jist of where I was going with the communication thing.
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Originally Posted by justin Thanks for the thoughts, Lotus. |
My pleasure.
p.s. The answer to "what's wrong with you" is not "nothing is wrong".
The answer is "what do you think about (insert rabbit hole)?"
::smooches:: Good luck to you both.