Thank you all for your thoughts and input. I hope to hear from him tomorrow or Wednesday and sit down with him to see what exactly he feels the problem is. I agree that there is something deeper than the cats.
I have already arranged couple counseling and just waiting to hear back from the counselor with a time/date.
Once my husband does call to let me know when he'll be back, I plan to bring the cats to my sisters so that he will know I have compromised and the cats are out of the house.
It will be up to him which road he wants to choose as in the 2 emails I had sent him I expressed what I wanted and hopefully he wants too. I told him I wasn't going to beg but I need him to tell me why he wouldn't/doesn't want to work on this. So it will be up to him if he wants to walk out on this relationship but I hope and pray he decides that it is worth working on this and not because he doesn't have anywhere else to go.
It's day three and I'm just waiting patiently and nervously to hear from him as I will not contact/email him again pending hearing from him. It is so tough not to now pick up the phone to see where he is or shoot another email to him but I've expressed all my thoughts and what I would like in those 2 emails.
It is now all up to him.
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