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Elenny · 07-01-2007, 08:03 PM

Hi Tweety17,

I also agree that the cats are not the real issue. And your family is not the problem either. There must be something else going on that HE needs to deal with (not necessarily you).

Taking a time out is not always a bad thing. It will help you both regain some clarity, take a step back, and figure out what went wrong.

Please take care of yourself. We have all been through heartbreaks before, but things DO get better with time, as cliché as that might sound.

And continue posting here. We might not be of much help, but at least you'll know you're not completely alone in this ordeal.

07-01-2007, 08:03 PM	#4 (permalink)
Elenny Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 189	Hi Tweety17, I also agree that the cats are not the real issue. And your family is not the problem either. There must be something else going on that HE needs to deal with (not necessarily you). Taking a time out is not always a bad thing. It will help you both regain some clarity, take a step back, and figure out what went wrong. Please take care of yourself. We have all been through heartbreaks before, but things DO get better with time, as cliché as that might sound. And continue posting here. We might not be of much help, but at least you'll know you're not completely alone in this ordeal.