Thanks for the great responses. I do have to say I'm familure with a lot the things you talk about, neediness, wanting it tax etc. And on the outside, I make it seem like I'm indifferent. But it seems to me you can say the exact samething the exact sameway in the exact same senario with different outcomes based on what your true inner needs/intentions are. Go with me here.
I'm not refuring to if you're needy inside, when you say something, the tonality and body language effects the interpretation. Disregard that. Let's pretend it's just a text message, an email. Whatever you were feeling inside was somehow, I don't know, attached to the message. So lets's also pretend the exact same senario. Exact same time read and sent, exact same message, everything ever is exactly the same EXCEPT that senario A you were feeling needy and B you were indifferent.
Do you think the person's response would be different? On some level do you think they could pick up on that vibe? I don't know, it could be some sort of psychic energy thing, or LOA. What do you think?
I mean I'm not talking about strangers or anything, but like a friend you like to hangout with, and you're just expecting them to blow you off. For no other reason besides my previous experiences and over anylizing everything. I mean it's hard to not take it personal when they're like you're friend. I strive for the indiference, but is there truely a level of non disapointment?
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