My girlfriend, like pretty much 90% of the population (the 90% cames from nowhere, don't take it seriously), likes to look good... And somehow, I don't know why, I can't accept it...
It poses me a real problem, I don't even know if I want to be with her anymore because of that (I still love her, its been more than 2 years i'm with her, and thats big considering i'm 17)
I wouln't mind if she wanted to look good for me... I want to look the best possible for her, without caring what everyone else (nor myself) thinks about it. Or I wouln't mind if she was a model or something, since its her job...
But thats not the case, she wants to look good just for looking good, which is normal I think, but why can't I accept that?
The problem isn't that I want her to look the way I want her to look, if she would want to cut her hair realy short because they get in her way, thats fine with me, even tho I would not like it.
I wanna know what motivate her to try to look the best possible... She alerdy have a boyfriend, he hates it when she tries to look good, it cost money and time... Why can't she just be natural and be happy with it? (And its not that she find herself ugly)
Anyway, what should I do? If someone would give me a long, elaborate awnser to why does people wants to look good, I think that would make me accept it easier...
Thanks in advance, realy hope you can help me on this.
(Ps. English is my secondary language, sorry if some parts arent clear)