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Originally Posted by unique  sometimes when u love someone unconditionally,u do end up taking crap from them.what u don't realise is that u r actually encouraging them to repeat it by accepting whatever they do by saying that U LOVE THEM uncondionationally.this is called self-abuse.
there is always a danger of letting people take u for granted coz "u love them no matter what.i personally think that people lack moral courage to stand up for themselves and let others abuse them by calling it unconditional love.love in any form cannot hurt anyobody.coz love is god and considered to be healing.
one of the reasons most people continue to be in an abusive relation is fear.i would say fear of the unknown.next would be dependancy factor & lack of courage.
loving others comes from loving ur self first.by letting urself be treated good not only by others but also by urself.how can u extend your love to others when u r in misery urself?we can still continue to live in the illusion that love is a feeling.whereas love is always a thoughful or a kind act towards the other. |
Agree 100%!
If you want to test your partner for his/her feelings just love him/her "unconditionally" and at no time you will see the whole picture. Very few will survive the test because it is a human nature "to take advantage if permited"
In order to love unconditionally your love to yourself should be greatly over top. how many people have you seen who reached that state?