I can be volatile too, but this is just that some people are more sensitive and therefore adapt more sensitively to their environment, whereas others don't get the circumstances, you are referring too.
Be aware, that you are not always talking to your guides.
A random spirit will tell you anything he likes, I remember talking to a dwarf in Astral Projection about something that was important to me.
He just said "You big, you must be hungry in your dimension!"
You can also hire new ones and call them upon the names, they'll give you.
I just listen to those, I feel they want to "move" something. Your guides can be very nice to you, I've a woman that visits me in my dreams and want me always to feel good, she gave me tips how to find a partner, what currently happening energetically and put me in dreams in scenarios I find quite pleasant, she's incredible, but I guess she's not into me
Yes we are for a very good reason here, I guess nobody would go for a longer time on earth without a reason. The negativity/separation this place has been is rare, what will do very well for the future. Also the intended blueprint is total diversity. They showed me a bit what happens when we keep this time-line, these times a very worth living, especially if you have the courage to live up to your purpose. The polarity rises again, but just in the people themselves. We need to understand that becoming aware of the dark is not being dark, it's just means to have a choice, this makes progress so lame, because everyone says "oh, no no I couldn't have dreamed this, no no I have no darker roles I incarnated in, I'm not creating my circumstances, I've no subconscious."
You have that life that is unique and the next is already entirely different, when you integrated the lesson at least.
Living up to a path is nothing you know before what it will be, your mind is not designed to know the details or to construct the future, your higher self gives you a direction and plays that out. Follow your desires, everything will fall in place when we have no expectations and keep with that as many doors as possible open.
I'm about to go the first step now, but I'm not in a hurry, because it'll need time. I don't want to have a desk job for 10 hours a day for longer than a few years, that sucks very hard, I'd rather live in a trailer park, unemployed, watch wrestling, play videogames and eat donuts.