Originally Posted by Christian223
i guess ill have to look for those books you people have recommended, any chance that i cat get that info for free on the net?
Try interlibrary book loan if you're in the US (getting specific book details off amazon.com). If nothing else it'd be worth it just for the look on the librarian's face
Who knows, maybe you'll get a cute and adventurous librarian in the mix ...
You could also google such as terms as ejaculation control and male multiple orgasm. This site pops up both times:
"Learning how to lengthen the arousal and erection period while delaying orgasm is an important part of maximizing enjoyment from sex. As the erection proceeds, the physical sensations become increasingly more and more exciting, and the psychological pressure to ejaculate becomes more and more intense. It is essential to learn how to keep the stimulation just below the level required for ejaculation, while learning to deal with the increasing psychological pressure to ejaculate. The psychological pleasure becomes more and more intense, the longer the arousal can be maintained
without ejaculation, but the greater the enjoyment for the man
. Developing these skills and dealing with the psychological desire to ejaculate for as long as possible requires practice. Women usually require a somewhat longer period of time to become fully aroused, so being able to delay orgasm potentially increases the enjoyment of sex by both partners." Male sexuality explored Male multiple orgasm