Originally Posted by nothingyouwanttoknow
How would you make amends with someone who would only see the advantages of it and go about doing the same thing they have always done? I don't think anyone would like being taken advantage of. How do you effectively deal with a narcissist who wants something from you and won't stop?
This isn't about being right. It's about taking a higher path and moving on with your life. Nobody likes being taken advantage of, however making amends is not something easy to perform either. You will have to challenge your very state of mindframe, which has been solidified by a constant state of internal as well as external conflict. Think of your body and soul as two different entities; one being bound by physical attributes, the other being ethereal in nature. Your physical body is telling you to go to war and keep challenging the situation. You spiritual nature is however pleading with you to resolve your internal conflicts, so you may move away from this cycle of hate.
Jealousy, anger, annoyance; are all physical human emotions that give rise to internal conflict. The more you learn to grow away from these emotions, the more free your soul becomes. When your soul is free and you have no internal conflict, you will be a more positive person.
The next time you see her I would like you to say "I no longer have any conflicts with you and I accept that this is just the way you are". Mentally repeat it, then physically say it. These kind of affirmations are what gives you your freedom. This isn't about winning or losing; this is about growing.
Face your Demons.