If you haven't already you might check out some of Mantak Chia's books such as "The Multi-Orgasmic Man". I'd practiced the techniques in his "Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy" several years ago and regularly got some version of what you described, so long as I didn't ejaculate. Working out the PC muscles via kegels is excellent for both men and women. Adding in breathing exercises or simply slowly down your breathing helps a lot as well.
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