Originally Posted by Midnite
You asked you Guardian Angel show you how to become a more positive person. Being positive is a state of mental as well as physical freedom. You have a scary green-eyed monster shackled at the bottom of your heart. And that monster obviously still affects you.
Remember what I said?
The laws of manifestation are bound around the very thoughts in your head. What you think about, is what appears in your life. Even if you think "I don't want to see her", your mind is stripping your thoughts to the bare essential power words "I - see - her".
Whether your thinking positive or negative things about her, you are thinking about her nonetheless.
You need to make a mental affirmation that this person has not and will no longer affect you.
One of my family members within his last week of life here on Earth, knew that he was dying. Even at that most extreme moment he made time to go and personally visit a man who he thought his mortal enemy. For years they were at each other's necks, never ceasing. Upon seeing his 'enemy', he kneeled down on the floor in front of him and said 'please forgive me...".
The people around him were soo stunned, they nearly fell off their chairs.
He knew at the bottom of his heart that unless he made amends, he would take that quarrel into the next life.
So I say; Make amends and go on to loving the world instead of fearing it.
How would you make amends with someone who would only see the advantages of it and go about doing the same thing they have always done? I don't think anyone would like being taken advantage of. How do you effectively deal with a narcissist who wants something from you and won't stop?