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duygusu · 03-08-2011, 11:20 AM

Well I just found this subject yesterday and am very very happy about it

So I have been saying tons and tons since yesterday, my GA is prolly really getting a workout!

I have a few unresolved issues concerning some people. I mean the issue is unresolved for me because I don't know where I stand with them, or if there is any kind of "issue" still left for them. I tried to ask for a most benevolent outcome and some closure for the issue but I dont think I have my wording down good.

Any ideas or has anyone done this kind of request?

Also, how do I know if silence or no action is actually the outcome of my request?

Thanks!

03-08-2011, 11:20 AM	#148 (permalink)
duygusu Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Istanbul Posts: 40	Well I just found this subject yesterday and am very very happy about it So I have been saying tons and tons since yesterday, my GA is prolly really getting a workout! I have a few unresolved issues concerning some people. I mean the issue is unresolved for me because I don't know where I stand with them, or if there is any kind of "issue" still left for them. I tried to ask for a most benevolent outcome and some closure for the issue but I dont think I have my wording down good. Any ideas or has anyone done this kind of request? Also, how do I know if silence or no action is actually the outcome of my request? Thanks!