Well, at the risk of raising old wounds, I had the same issues you have had and the one thing that made a huge difference for me was PATHS. I now sleep like a baby for the first time since I was a baby.
It is a little expensive (and has created some controversial arguments here in these forums!), but if you follow their rules and it doesn't work in 30 days, they'll give you a 100% refund.
My boyfriend, Danger Man, and I were not able to sleep in the same bed before we started doing PATHS -- he would get infuriated by my rising 4 or 5 times every night, and I would have to wake him up to get him to stop snoring. He no longer snores, and I am able to sleep through the night. This has helped our relationship tremendously, let me tell you.
It also seemed to effect the quality of our dreams, which suddenly became very happy and sweet, and led Danger Man and me to talk through some issues were were working with and needed insight on.
(I am not selling PATHS -- just telling you something that worked like a charm for me.)
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