ok, what if you love someone and want them to love you back in the same way? hence, with your mind you are controlling theirs feelings for you because you are controlling how you feel about their feelings for you. so, with this theory you can make someone love you. however, whats the point? if you created this love and made this person love you simply by loving yourself then, why not just love yourself, and forget about being married, having friends having family? If all the love and friendship you have for other people is jsut a projection of the love you feel for yourself, then why use people as a mirror? it seems that in this line of thinking, lonliness is the greatest company of all.
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