One man's arrogance is another man's self confidence.
Consider, for a moment, that when you were nerdy/unpopluar/whatever that you had ideas about what arrogance meant and that perhaps you were misconstruing arrogance for real self confidence. Consider that this is WHY you were nerdy and unpopular and now that you are seeing success, you are becoming what you once thought was arrogant.
Finally, consider that what you once thought was arrogant was really just the box you were putting yourself in to keep you from being self confident and that you simply need to update your definition of arrogance because it's old and outdate and does not suit the new you and the path of growth you are on.
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