I'll add a little to what Steve said. I was terrified of public speaking. Avoided it all costs, including being willing to take a failing grade rather than speak in class. But a year ago I finally joined Toastmasters and now I can honestly say I enjoy speaking. I still feel nervous before a speech but I'm not at all terrified. Practice makes perfect.
At the toastmaster meetings you don't even have to give your first speech until you're ready. Before then you will do these little odd jobs for the club like be the timer or the "ah" counter. You give like a 5-10 second report at the end of the meeting. No biggie, and it helps you become comfortable in the group.
And one thing about Toastmasters you must know. They are 110% supportive. No one will ever laugh at you or say anything to lower your self esteem. I'm sooo glad I joined. I never thought in a million years I could enjoy or look forward to giving a speech but here I am. |