[Groundless]

Seriously though, I think you're starting to reach the point where the mind runs in circles. This will probably sound like a cop out answer, and even writing about it will reduce it to a mental concept (which has the problems you describe), but I think the only place to go from there is “within”. The place where there is perception without the trap you describe; Feeling-realisation, non-duality, “presence”, etc.

These forums and the constant posting here lead away from realization but yet many ideas point to realisation if you don't get attached to them. I fully agree with Bruce's quoted statement above.

I’ve very briefly experienced such states at varying levels of depth myself, but I’m still far too green to discuss it with any authority. I can only point to it with words with the disclaimer “I’m a newb, whatever I say is probably wrong”, hehe.

Me too.