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Originally Posted by Casper  Indications of wealth or status, I've found, are especially damaging; merely noting in passing where I live, a favorite restaurant, a past experience - anything that is a clear indicator of wealth - when their is a clear disparity is off-putting.
The seemingly simple solution would be to associate with people with wealth. However, to me, wealth in and of itself does not attract me. |
I think you may be seeking friends on the basis of wealth, status, home address, favorite restaurant, etc., which really amounts to nothing. You need to dig a little deeper, find some qualities within yourself which are important to you, and seek friends with the same qualities.
Are you a giver? Join Habitat for Humanity and help build some houses. Driving nails and hauling shingles make good grounds for lasting friendships. Are you more into the life of glitter? Chair a charity committee or host a charity event at your club or at your home. You get to dress to the nines and get your picture in the society column and still do a good deed.
Whatever you decide to do to hook up with folks with similar values, don't lose sight of the big picture. Do something worthwhile with your time and your talent
