One thing i like to add that i've found recently too while counselling friends is that friendships are becoming kind of redundent.
Not all of them, but theres so much inner stuff going on that relationships you used to have with people shifted to a point where friends you used to have don't seem so important to you anymore.
I know i last year i started thinking about having friends who i enjoyed being around and could talk with and laugh with and just have a good time. But also have those things we all like in a friend like trust and compassion and loyalty.
I see a lot now everywhere around me that others are seeing the same thing. Friends weren't like they used to be.
I found this interesting. Have you guys seen this too?