No KeithHandy, that was for me
I expected such a reaction, but one thing I am clear about writting in this forum is that I have no interest in saying what most people would agree with for the sake of acceptance in the group.
That said, it was probably a lousy metaphor I used, and I hope Madgeylou that you read the last line of my last post. I will try to make it more clear.
I was not talking in a vibrational sense. Most people tend to look up to some people, see others as equals and see others as "they haven't quite figured this out yet". This does not necessarily imply judgement, it's mostly subconscious.
What I was trying to say is that when you spend your time with people that have higher value than you in any particular sense (again this definition is totally subjective so take it as you whish) you tend to grow more. Not always, but as a general rule I think we can agree on this. And when people that in _some_ way look up to you spend time with you, I believe they too receive high value from the interaction.
The problem arises on how you should spend your limited amount of time. Sure, you can also look as everyone as if they were teachers and everyone knows more than you in some way. BUt personnaly I would rather spend 1h talking with, hum, let's say Steve Pavlina
, than say a low self esteem teen party boy. I think I would grow more in the first case and in the second help to grow. Both are beautiful human beings sure, but that is not what I think we are discussing.
I do my best to be kind and cheer up _all_ those who sorround me, that has nothing to do. I hope I made my self clearer.
If not, well it can't be helped.