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Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity}  When those plagueing thoughts come into your mind and a knot forms in the pit of your stomach, choose to release that feeling and thought. Just notice and acknowledge them and then let them drift away. |
I will try to do that, ATC. Thank you, that's great advice. Releasing the thoughts may take practice, but with time, I hope it'll improve.
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Originally Posted by Old Soul If this lady is your "Eve"....... and you know it
go after her:-) do not give up.. Until she makes it clear that she wants you to .. then respect it |
Throughout all of this saga, since I let her know my feelings and told her I want her back in my life, she has never said "No, it won't work." She has consistently said, "I don't know how I feel. I don't know if we'll be back together again." Maybe that means she really and truly is confused about how she feels about me and maybe it means, she want's to see how much I'm willing to fight for her. As I mentioned in a previous post, it's hard to gauge when to fight and when to give her the space and time she needs. I want to fight for her, but I don't know how to do that, now that she's with someone new. (who, I'm told by friends is the complete opposite of me and really not her type. Her friends are scratching their heads on the choice).
Thank you so much for your insight. I really appreciate it and try to heed what feels right.