Originally Posted by followingthegentleway
Hello, I'm Neil. I signed-up just for this thread
Everything about this technique and philosophy appeals to me. I haven't had a chance to read the book, but I've spent a day reading this thread and Tom's newsletters. The benevolence, love and compassion that Tom describes is the world I want to live in.
But, alas, it hasn't worked for me yet. I wrote an MBO on a pad of paper and placed it next to my window. Despite living alone, I just can't bring myself to speak aloud
. Are written MBOs less effective than spoken?
Can anyone suggest a good way to experience MBOs for the first time?
It's always good to start small when first using MBO's, just to see how things work out. Doing MBO's for parking spaces has really made me go "holy cow" more than once, when a seemingly impossible place to park just opens up as I get there. Also, do MBO's for everyday things, like to have a good night's sleep or do an MBO for anything that's bothering you, like headaches or body pains... etc. Of course you could do the big MBO's right of the bat too.... try everything and anything.
I like the method of saying my MBO's outloud, I've never used the written one, so I can't talk about that too much, but from what I understand it works just as good. I would try, as best as you can, to say the MBO outloud, when I do that I can even feel energy move through me right after I say it, which is sort of a little "nod" from my GA that things are starting to work out. That energy also raises your vibrational rate and does wonderful things, like start to move you closer to much more obvious contact with your angels and guides.
If you can't say your MBO's outloud, maybe you can do an MBO to feel more confortable actually saying them outloud....lol! Another MBO, I like to say, now that I think of it, I try to remember to say this every morning is "I request the most benevolent outcome to have a very joyful, blissful and love filled day that puts a smile on my face and allows me to feel absolutely wonderful and may this outcome be even better than I could hope for or expect...thank you". Saying that MBO everyday has made me feel so much better...I'm sure you'll get great result too!