I'm glad to hear that you two have the same outlook on the things you each need to work on.
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Originally Posted by bleachjt I asked her if we could try to stop using negative words like "no", "can't" and "won't" whenever we discuss something, so it doesn't feel so final and threatening. She loved the idea. I hope that will set our discussions in a more positive light. |
Oh, this is a wonderful suggestion on your part! My dh and I do our best to do this too. Sometimes the more heated discussions lead to one of using one of them, but it rarely happens any more. It takes practice, but it can be done.
Okay... with that out of the way... I want to ask you something else. You asked
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How can I love her unconditionally?
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How do you define uncondional love? What would loving her
unconditionally mean to you?