[jwz]

Thanks for your post, openeyes.
It really made my thoughts move around.
I'm not sure what to reply, as I got a little shocked, touched and confused by it. (not bad, but eye-opening)
I will give this some thought, and post back.
(oh and yes, I help my parents out as much as I can. Dishes, painting the house, cooking, helping out my dad with his company etc etc)