Have any geeks around here wondered why a girl will stay in an abusive relationship? Tackle that intellectually and you'll go insane if you haven't already.
I think it's a pretty good hint to what's going
underneath.
Geeks need to let go of their intellect when it comes to dating and get an understanding of how
attraction works without their logic, to step out of their mental toolbox they've clinged to all their life.
I think people need to look at the big picture here, since there's sides being taken. Flashy guys are getting the first step, getting girls left and right but they can't keep them. Geeky guys are getting the last, whenever they do get a girl (which is very rare) they usually keep them for awhile, years sometimes. They're BOTH incomplete and equal.
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From one 30 years old, still single geek... the word is EXPOSURE.... take some Aikido classes to whip you into shape then take some dancing classes... (female to male ratio in those classes is unusually high)
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In my opinion. Exposure is like taking the pieces of the jigsaw of dating and flipping them over so you can actually see them. But you still need to put the pieces together.