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Old 06-17-2007, 03:36 PM   #2 (permalink)
ZHereford
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Originally Posted by bleachjt View Post
We both wanted different things, and in the end she gave in to me, but it didn't feel right and I didn't want it like that. So today we argued some more and it is always like this.
Hi bleachjt,
I find that if two people want different things from life it's very difficult to sustain a relationship. It doesn't mean that you don't love and respect each other, it just means that you may not be compatible on the many levels to need to be.

You're right in not wanting her to give in to you for the sake of keeping peace. Each of you has to be honest and true to yourself. Don't settle for the sake of settling.
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